7 masturbation techniques that prevent you from cumming

Wondering why you can't cum during sex? The answer might be in your masturbation habits.

What is high-risk masturbation?

You might think: "Risky masturbation? What are you talking about? All you need is your hand, right?" But if your penis and brain get used to an excessive level of stimulation, you risk developing intravaginal ejaculatory dysfunction or severe delayed ejaculation.

Here are the 8 techniques to absolutely avoid:

1. Too tight grip

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Exactly as it sounds: masturbation where the penis is gripped too tightly.

The pressure from a hand is normally stronger than the pressure from a vagina. So it can become difficult to ejaculate during penetration once you've gotten used to much stronger stimulation. In severe cases, you feel nothing during penetration.

What pressure is appropriate? As a rule of thumb, apply as much pressure as if you were gripping an egg.

2. Too fast movements

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This means the speed of movement is faster than what's possible during normal sexual intercourse.

Once used to fast movements, the speed of normal sex seems slower (and consequently less stimulating), making ejaculation more difficult. This technique is often combined with a firm grip and can become your masturbation norm over time.

A natural movement speed would be about the same as sexual intercourse.

3. Stretched leg position

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It involves ejaculating while the legs are stretched out and the front of the thighs are tensed. In some cases, tension is also applied to the buttocks. If you get too used to it, you'll find it hard to ejaculate when your legs aren't stretched.

Try to relax your legs when you masturbate. If you feel the urge to tense your legs, it's a good idea to masturbate while kneeling, or to masturbate by thrusting your hips, similar to actual intercourse.

4. Vibrator masturbation

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This method involves getting pleasure from a vibrating sex toys. Naturally, the vagina and other body cavities don't vibrate, so getting used to vibrations increases the risk of developing death grip syndrome.

5. Foreskin masturbation

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This masturbation method stimulates the glans by sliding the foreskin up and down over it, without ever sliding the foreskin all the way down.

Uncircumcised men often masturbate using the foreskin. Since they can't touch the sensitive glans directly, they may tend to masturbate with a tight grip and fast movements. Since the foreskin can't be manipulated intravaginally, it creates a difference in sensation, leading to a risk of death grip syndrome.

The solution is to pull back the foreskin completely and masturbate without sliding the foreskin up and down, using lubrication.

6. Water stream masturbation

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Even if you don't have direct experience, it's easy to imagine how good this can feel.

This is a method of self-pleasure derived from showers, hot tubs, or jets in pools. Of course, the stimulation is far from the sensation of penetrative sex, so if you get used to this kind of stimulation, it increases the risk of death grip syndrome.

7. Using pornogrpahy

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Although this isn't a physical stimulus during masturbation, relying on very stimulating content (like watching pornography) increases the risk of developing death grip syndrome.

If you become accustomed to unrealistic portrayals of sexual activity, it might affect your arousal level during conventional sex.

You should always maintain the ability to ejaculate with only your imagination, without having to watch pornography.

Safer masturbation methods

The masturbation you normally practice might actually increase your risk of delayed ejaculation. When masturbating, keep these appropriate methods in mind:

• Use a gentle grip

• Slow and steady movements

• Relax your body

• Pull back the foreskin as much as possible

• Avoid stimulation different from sex (e.g., vibrations, water jets)

• Use only your imagination

Don't lose hope! With the right techniques and a bit of patience, you can be able to come easily in her pussy!