Why should you never masturbate without lube?

Let's talk about something that doesn't get enough attention: lube.

I get dozens of DMs weekly from people dealing with Death Grip issues that could've been prevented with lube.

Why lube matters more than you think

Here's what proper lubrication does for you:

1. It reduces friction. A good lube prevents dryness, friction and rough rubbing. You'll preserve the sensitivity of your nerves and get your brain used to cumming in a moist, slippery environment (like vagina).

2. It prevents making the problem worse. Going dry risks aggravating the issue

Scientific explanation

• The penis is innervated by sensory nerves that transmit the sensations of touch, pain, and pleasure to the brain.

• These receptors transform the stimuli into electrical signals that travel along the nerves to the central nervous system, where they are interpreted as sensations.

• Masturbating too quickly will stress the nerves. The nerves of the penis are very sensitive. And if the nerves aren't healthy, you won't be able to perceive different sensations.

Choosing your lube

100% paraben-free, odorless and colorless water-based lubricant should be purchased. Skip the flavored lubes. Your body doesn't need artificial strawberry flavor. And avoid anything with glycerin.

Since your penis is desensitized, water-based lubricants will irritate your penis less and cause less irritation, while silicone lubricants will damage your fleshlight over time.

Water lubes

An effective and inexpensive lube: Aloe Cadabra Natural

Silicon lubes

If you really want to use lube made with silicone (for example because you don't like to reapply lube several times), then I recommend this one: Überlube

Lube + fleshlight

The most effective and simple things to regain sensations :

• Buy a fleshlight

• Buy a lube

Every time you masturbate, use the fleshlight with lube. 

Q&A

I don't have the money to buy lube. What can I do?

When you masturbate, use plenty of saliva.

When should I use lube with my partner?

• If she suffers from vaginal dryness

• Anal intercourse (be careful, as the anus is dry and tight, you need to use a lot!)

Wrapping up

Using lube isn't just about comfort. Think of it as an investment in your sexual health.

Start with a basic water-based lube and experiment from there!